Designing Relationships on 'Your Terms'
My Unconventional Dating Life Part 1 + FREE EVENT!
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I decided it was time I do a monthly series titled My Unconventional Dating Life. In a world where love is often confined to narrow definitions and societal norms, I've discovered the liberating journey of crafting my own relationship blueprint – one that honors my kinks, values, and deepest desires.
F*ck societal norms I say! I am the most well-loved, well-nurtured, well-f*cked woman I know. I command the men around to meet me where I have met myself.
As many of you may already know, I am a non-monogamous little lover girl who uses dating and relationships as a playground for personal growth, adventure, and desire. Last year, I walked away from what many women would consider the 'perfect' relationship with a man in the French Riviera. He offered me a life where I wouldn't have to do much of anything, but as a Capricorn with big aspirations, I knew I wasn't meant for mediocrity. That I was destined for a love that was of my own design, where I could get all the different facets of my personality nourished, f*cked, and loved and thrive as a self-made businesswoman/creative in the process. So I walked away and built my own kingdom.
We have high expectations from our partners, expecting them to fulfill multiple roles like being our lover, best friend, confidant, activity partner, co-parent, and more. It's no surprise that we feel skeptical and exhausted about relationships and think men are all the same (I’ll be going on a rant about THAT one next week. Nothing pisses me off more than the outdated Sex and The City mentality)
The trust and freedom my partner provides me amplifies my love for him exponentially.
We must experience everything in this life. This is what makes us whole. I have it all. And I want more. More life. More love. More expansion. More abundance. More.
In July last year, I met my soul mate, a union so unique and so sacred to me that I have yet to share it outside of my private members’ stories on IG. After a challenging period in our relationship, where I wondered if he was capable of meeting the new version of me I had morphed into after my recent trip home, I decided to invite him into his own uplevel and show him HOW to be with a high-value woman (something I am very excited to teach in my upcoming group mastermind: WORTH)
Last week, after a long night of talking out my needs and putting protocols in place, I ventured off to Germany for a luxury getaway with a past lover, laughing as I walked out of the airport to him waiting in a rented Porsche sportscar. A tradition of ours.
This trip was a clear indication of my personal growth, as I faced situations that would have once triggered the f*******k out of my insecurities with newfound confidence and grace.
I am currently unable to be intimate with anyone while I recover from a rather turbulent time with my urinary health. I am being spoilt and loved in other ways. The high-level men I interact with don’t give a f*ck about sex. They care about intimacy.
What does that word mean to you?
My lover could sense my growth, and I felt him soften as he relaxed into the nurturing space that only a woman who has faced her darkness can create. By doing so, I sank back into spoilt lover-girl mode, spending Monday alone in the bathtub, eating a cheese platter and reminiscing on how much I had grown since I last jumped on a plane to him.